June 23, 2010
morning pages
Is it fair to put something that someone else wrote on my blog? Yep, in my mind it is, especially if it is worth reading. Mind you. this is worth reading and practicing in my li fe today. for the simple fact, that I am in the middle of my second week off from school for the summer. If I do not stop putting things off, and get my school stuff under control, the summer will be over before I know it.
For this very reason I decided to read my fly lady today. I will practice 15 minutes in my bedroom closet, of cleaning out my school stuff, that I have saved for 5 years while being in college.
I am tring to remember that just for today I will take 15 minutes and I will throw away, give away, and put away and I will be that much closer to my goal of having my teaching stuff organized before fall.
Some will work in their gardens, some will work at their jobs, some will work at home with their children, some will have fun with their grandchildren, (yep, that's me today)and some will work at getting their teaching stuff organized today for 15 minutes (yep, that's me too)!
Our procrastination is fueled by our perfectionism. We get caught in the trap of thinking we don't have time to do it right. This is when we do nothing. Eventually the procrastination bites us hard and our homes become overwhelming. Isn't this why you searched the internet looking for an answer to your messy house?
We give you to the tools but the most important part is the attitude adjustment you manifest in your head. You read what we write for you and use those messages to eliminate your perfectionism. It doesn't happen overnight. Your home did not become cluttered in a day and it is not ever going to be that ideal of "Perfect"!
Perfect is a myth you only see in pictures of magazines. It is a word that I despise because of what it does to my FlyBabies. We so want to get it all together and feel good about our homes. We just never dreamed that in the process of getting our homes clean we would find ourselves.
Our perfectionism piggy-backed with procrastination put us in a coma. We don't know how to make a decision so it is just easier to do nothing. Sometimes we just want someone to tell us where to start and
what to do. I think this is why our message has touched so many people. We give you a starting place and tell you that you can do anything for 15 minutes.
In the time it takes to talk ourselves out of doing something we could have the job done. You know the dialog. It has become invisible to our thinking processes because we have played it out over and over each
time something needs to be done. We hear ourselves saying we don't have time. Those words are the first red flag for us. If you would set your timer at the moment those words cross your lips or enter your mind you would feel so much better. No more procrastinating. I don't have time has turned into do it now!
Do it now is doing something! Sometimes it is just putting away one item but it is something! Celebrate your Go Me accomplishments. They don't have to be perfect or even finished to be a reason to throw your
arms up in the air and yell Go ME! Getting up is better than being paralyzed in a chair saying I don't have time.
It is time to stop procrastinating! Today is Anti-Procrastination Day. You can do it! Just do something! You will feel better! This week we are in our Master Bedrooms. What have you been putting off? I cleared my dresser today. Let's turn our bedrooms into a sanctuary.
Are you ready to FLY?
FlyLady
Have you been procrastinating about putting together your simple Control Journal? This is a tool that gives you place to start. It is just a binder with your routines written down. It is your list to get you started. If your perfectionism has stopped you from writing down our routines stop it right now! get a piece of paper and do it now!
For those of you who need help I put one together for you!
http://flylady.net/pages/FlyShop_CJ.asp