Sunday, September 23, 2012

# 7 from the littlest

One may wonder how a mom of a deployed solider finds comfort knowing that her youngest daughter is in the middle of a war. 
  • I pray a lot (really nothing new for me but a different way of praying for her)
  • I attend the FRG meeting monthly
  • I attend a Blue Star Mom's group monthly
  • I send a package and a letter weekly
  • I read, re-read, re-type and record here on my blog letters sent home from boot camp when she enlisted in 2007
July 24 2007

Dear Mom,

How are you? Well I haven't heard from you in a while so I thought I would write you a letter. I just got done with my first written test and I'm pretty sure I got 100%. It was for land navigation which isn't too hard. I miss talking to you mom! It feels like it's been forever since I've been able to get a hold of you. Yesterday we went on our 2nd foot march. it was an 8K which I think is 5 miles. I had to go to the bathroom so bad the whole time which wasn't fun. We went to the gas chamber the other day. That was pretty bad. It burned really bad and I couldn't breathe when I took off my mask. How are things at home? Adam wrote to me. He sounds like he's doing really good and that makes me so happy. Oh Yeah, I have this friend that's on s. watch right now because doesn't want to be here. I've been reading the Bible to her and she's coming to church with me on Sunday. Please pray that I will be a light to her. I want on my 2nd foot march like I was telling you and I prayed the whole time. It was my remodeled devotions .... :-) I don't have time everyday to read my Bible which makes me pretty upset. Hopefully, starting in a couple of weeks I'll have more time.  So are you guys going to send me a birthday present? Ha Ha Just kidding. Ok well I didn't get to finish yesterday so now it's the 25th. I didn't get into the AMP program which is fine cause my drill sgt. said she would not give me up cause she still needs good soldiers. Graduation will be November 15th for sure. Well, I have to go ... love you lots. I got your letter too mom. Thanks Ash

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Relaxing Top 5 Friday (typed on Saturday)

I'm linking up here: http://annieblogs.com/

These are 5 ways I relax

1. reading a "no-mind" book defined as one I do not underline and take notes from

2. hot tub bath and I was surprised at how many others find this relaxing

3. reading my Bible and praying on the Sabbath and often with the book For God's Sake Rest

4. long walks on a Minnesota Spring or Fall days

5. reading on the couch with my grandchildren in person or via Skype


Just linking up with Annie Downs today after spending the day at Girls of Grace in EP.


 I had the opportunity to meet Annie in person (and give her a big Minnesota welcome and hug) and was thrilled to hear her speak! One take-away from her today:

My Words Matter

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

4 weeks out

Hard to believe that I am 4 weeks post-op .... I am feeling so much stronger and leaning so much more into His arms. There are a lot of things happening in my life, the life of my children and in my church family that have given me cause to pause and pray often. Something I read by Paul Tripp this week impacted me.
Prayer finds its hope not in the qualifications of the one praying, but in the character and plan of the God who is hearing.
 
It may be hard for me, but I choose to resist my hard things as intruders and to welcome them as friends. I trust that my life may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that I may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ. 

May the peace of Christ dwell in you richly today! Remaining In His Arms. B.

Monday, September 10, 2012

gratitude leads to joy


3 gifts in water

904. ice cubes in my ginger ale post op

905. the small amount of rain that watered the flowers

906. warm soapy water to wash my dishes in

3 gifts in His Word

907. Psalm 115:9 … trust in the LORD—he is their help and shield.

908. thinking about all my girlfriends and all of their prayers the last few days and am reminded of “A friend loves at all times”

910. Psalm 91:1

3 gifts in summer

911. no outside activities being canceled because of the weather

912. fresh gf strawberry pie

913. extra time to read

A hard eucharisteo

914. 3 weeks post op and much difficulty sleeping

3 gifts of family

915. the golfer who loves me more

916. the adult children who say they love me more

917. the kisses and hugs and art work from the grandchildren

Its habits that can imprison you and its habits that can free you and when thanks

to God becomes a habit, so joy in God becomes your life.

Monday, August 27, 2012

I am pretty sure I came up with this saying first ... but does that really matter?


I am pretty sure I came up with this saying first .... It was 2002 when I thought to myself the children need to know this too ... you may be wondering what the children need to know. I had been a part of the adult intercessor's team at CEFC from 2000-2002 and had been learning so much about prayer ....

I had learned what prayer is and how it's done. I had participated in prayer meetings that had a beginning time but no ending time. My experience with prayer prior to being a part of this team was, prayer is private, confidential. I had grown up in a religious home where my father prayed before meals but as for praying at other times, or publicly that just did not happen in our home.

When I was asked by my good friend Donna if I wanted to come to a prayer meeting with much hesitation I said, "Sure, but I won't have to pray aloud will I?" For weeks I attended with my friend and listened to others pray without saying a word. I realized after listening in on others as they prayed that it was not about religion, it's about a relationship. I could tell that those who prayed knew personally the God they were praying to. They had a relationship with Him; they talked like they were talking to a good friend across the table. I decided that I needed to step out of my comfort zone of not saying a word and take a risk in praying aloud. At first, I was uncomfortable. I thought I needed to have the right words. Others were listening in and I wanted to know I was doing it correctly. It wasn't long when I realized it was not about doing or saying the right thing but it was about having a right relationship.

I began to practice praying alone and continued to go to prayer meetings and pray aloud with others. When I prayed with others I found myself agreeing with them as they prayed and I was moved to pray in the Spirit about things others were praying. It became easier and easier, One night after an adult prayer meeting, with my friend Donna, I leaned over and said, "The children need to learn this".

I thought if I had learned to pray as a child it would have been so much easier to go and pray aloud with other adults. I said to Donna, "someone needs to teach the children." She agreed and stated that she believed I was the one that should teach the children.

I remember saying to her, "no, not me, but someone needs to."

In October of 2002 I stepped out in faith, and with the support of our children's pastor and the adult intercessor team and began the NHC Children's prayer team. We sent out a letter to all the 4th-6th grade parents and invited them to consider signing up their children for prayer team. There was no curriculum per say and I was stepping into territory that had not been covered before in the history of our church. I knew we did not need material or curriculum but we did need to gather to pray. Two boys signed up and they began to pray and then two girls joined and by January there were seven students desiring to learn to pray. I had 3 main things I taught the children in 2002, and this year 2012, a team of teachers and myself, will continue to teach the team these same 3 things:

1. it’s not about religion, it's about relationship

2. It's not about having devotions, it's about being devoted

3. P stands for Praise

    R stands for Repent

    A stands for Ask

    Y stands for Yield

Last year was our ninth year of the children's prayer team at New Hope Church http://www.newhopechurchmn.org/ . We have grown from a team of 7 in 2002 to a team of 28 in 2012. When Dayspring was asking for product reviews that could be a part of a life story I knew I could not resist reviewing this product.

 
 
 

I don't have children going back to school but I am a teacher going back to school both in a public school and at our church. I am excited to have all my notes for prayer team this year in my new notebook with a line that has become a part of the curriculum it's not about religion, it's about relationship.

I am also excited to start once again teaching school and being a part of a community of parents, students, and teachers where I will use my other products to share about my faith.

Having these tools gives me an opportunity to be bold about my faith. Thank you Dayspring for the opportunity to share my story that began nine years ago. (long before you maybe you even thought of putting these words on notebooks and folders!)

 


Pastor Greg Braly and I planning out the new year for
HopeWatchers, the children's prayer team at New Hope Church, New Hope, MN
 
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(*disclaimer* I was given this products at no cost from Dayspring in exchange for my story about their product. All stories and opinions are mine and mine alone!) 
 






Friday, August 24, 2012

joining the ranks

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Who every would have thought that when I signed papers for my daughter at the age of 17 that I would be joining the ranks of Army  mom. Sure, when I was asked to sign for her I had some hesitation. But when you see a kid growing up, and knowing from the age of twelve, what she dreamed of being when she grew up, I could not possibly be the one to stop her. Instead, with all of my children who have had many dreams (much like their mother) I have supported, encouraged and prayed for God's perfect timing and leading in their lives.
 
Now I have joined the ranks of Army mom
I have joined the ranks of having a child fighting the war
I have joined the Family Readiness Group supporting the 257 MP CO
And I will join the Blue Star Mom's group on Tuesday, September 4th 2012
I am proud to be an American and proud to say,
 I have joined the ranks of Army Mom thanks to our littlest!
 

Stop

 
 
 
Linking up with Lisa Jo today here:
 
 

I'm dreaming ... how about you?

It has been awhile since I completed a book review, yet this is not because I am not reading as general,y I am reading 3 to 4 books at the same time. The reason for the late review is more about reading and re-reading the ideas in this book by John Maxwell. I finished the reading of this book last summer yet one year later I am writing the review.

I found this book helpful for looking at my dream of becoming a writer. The ten questions Maxwell uses are excellent in helping an individual see and seize their dream. For me, I feel as if I am seeing, seizing and owning my dream when I take intentional steps to blog, to read, and to write for others when requested.

One of the most beneficial parts of this book is towards the end of the book where Maxwell walks you through creating a map for your dream. I love this part because it takes you through a concrete exercise that is helpful for realizing your dream.

On a scale of 1-10 I would rate this book at a "10". This is a book that I will return to my bookshelf and refer to often. I will re-read this book during my extra chunks of time in the summer and fall, winter and spring school breaks when I actually have extra time to write. I'm dreaming big ... how about you?




Thursday, August 23, 2012

day 2 post op

So very grateful to now have day 2 behind me. Last night was rough as I began to react to the antibiotic. This time I was prepared as I now have benedryl on hand because of past experience with reactions to different foods and meds. Also grateful for the golfer who continues to ask if there is anything I need anything he can do and today he did just that ...  He went and made a copy for me, dropped off some stuff at Bibles For Missions Thrift Store, and he hung both the cup holder and candle holder on the kitchen wall.

Today was the day I could take the bandages off and take a shower so .... You can only imagine how good that felt. I got some extra reading and writing done and spent some time 
thinking about and praying for girlfriends. 

The golfer decided to go to 5 guys for dinner, and I, wanting to get out of the house for a bit, rode along. Then I packed his bag for travel to his home town of Bagley where he will go this weekend for his high school reunion. Before going to bed he took some time to read through the information for the remote for my device and spent some time showing me how it works. 



Grateful for all the ways the golfer has given generously to me and taken care of me the last few days!

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

day 1 post op

Surgery went well according to the surgeon, Terry and my friend Ginny. It was an hour and 1/2 in length. The placement of the device is on my left side. So this means currently I am learning how to sleep on my right side. Funny, because of a broken finger and now sleeping with hand splints on both hands at night I had just changed sleeping from my right side to my left. Now I will be switching back to my right side. Suffice this to say, that last night was a tough night. Pain level was at an 8 most of the night, and sleep was off and on. I am struggling with a bit of nausea today, pain at the sites of the incisions, some itching but way less trips to the bathroom! 

Hard to keep my mind off my body today, but I have had some good times in the word, finished writing a letter to Ashley, read some blogs and journaled, watched a little TV and did some leisure reading. Grateful to be one day closer to full recovery.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Surgery Day!

Hard to believe that it's "go" day ... the last time I went in for surgery was on November 8, 2011 and it was scheduled to be a 1 hour surgery that lasted 4 hours. I am glad the past is  behind me and I am looking forward to a new beginning. Got a great night's rest last night knowing full well that my friends were praying exactly for that. Why would I be surprised!

Anyways for the nitty gritty facts:
  • showered with Hibiclens last night before watching a bit of the news and having my last drink before midnight (ginger ale).
  • slept from 10:15 until 5:30 (getting up twice to go to the bathroom)
  • showered, scrubbed with Hibiclens one more time this morning
  • reading in 2 Corinthians this morning and Psalms
I feel ready but still have lots of questions which I am sure Dr. Nakib will address. (funny one of the questions both Terry and I have is if our devices will be compatible) :-) He had his pacemaker installed almost 8 years ago and today is my day for a pacemaker.

More later ,,,,  am really thankful for these texts from friends:
"I am the LORD that health thee." EX 15:26 Trusting in Him to do just that for you! Love you so much, praying for you and excited to hear how God is going to carry you through! ~Liz
I love you very much! continued to pray for you. I trust that the Great Physician is going to do good work. hug w scratchies. ~Andrea
Psalm 100 The Lord made you and will care for you. See you soon! ~Ginny
Also grateful for the many prayers from friends and family sent by e-mail and for the prayer from my best friend Terry (in person) and my good friend Ginny (over the phone) last night.

Remaining In His Arms today! B.